Sunday, June 26, 2005

自己来!

Alot of times when bad things happen or when you are having a negative outlook in the things around you, we tend to slump into this hole and just hope for the storm to blow over. This couple of weeks made me realise that when bad things happen or when we are having a low morale, the only person that can save us and pull us out of the crater is ourselves!

As much as others can sympathise with you, there is only so much they can do to help you. When unfortunate things happen to our friends, all we can do is 'Oh no.' and try whatever we can to help. But, in the end, it boils down to the person to pick himself up.

However, our loved ones do matter. I was feeling super low morale that day... for a period of time actually but i am blessed to have received words of encouragement and concern from my parents. And even more so, my dear, miss lin shuyun. Their words slowly, but surely, coaxed me into not feeling bad for myself and eventually gave me the strength to believe and pull myself out of the hole that i have dug for myself.

well... i still dread weekend sailing.. but at least since there is nothing i can do about it, i might as well try to enjoy it... Sounds sad rite? haha.

Friends and family matters! They help you start to get out of the dark dark cave, but to bathe yourself in the light, it all depends on ourselves to make that happen.

Like what you do and not do what you like.

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