quote from a friend's journal

Stumbled on the journal of this very very good friend of mine. Thought it gave me some food for thoughts.

"It seems girls these days are getting more independent.. they are more willing to leave their loved ones to pursue what they want.. It makes guys think girls just want excitement in their life.. so much so that they can just forsake the people who love them to pursue such excitement..

I think that's the main difference between guys and girls.. guys need to have the girl they love with them.. physically.. and when one leaves, they'll find another one to replace the place next to them... But for girls, they don't need their loved one next to them.. they pursue their dream, while keeping their loved one in their heart.. they will find new friends to be with them.. But in their heart, they keep a place for their loved one.. a place which is irreplacable..

My friend, if you ever read this.. Good guys don't finish last.. They remain in the hearts of the girls who loved them.. forever. Take care. "

It had been 9 years since we first met.
And 9 years of true friendship don't come easy.

Thanks my dear friend.