I am reading this book which babe had offered to lend it to me. It's called the "10 Commandments of Dating" by Ben Young and Dr. Samuel Adams. At first i was sceptical about it but after flipping through a few pages, i decided to borrow it.
After reading through the first 2 chapters of the book, i began to have doubts. To have doubts about myself. I had always thought I had loved (yes, bgr this time) the best way I knew how to love but apparently I had loved the "wrong" way.
First things first, the content of the book is fairly biblical and I do not take it as the gospel truths. But the things mentioned in the book are logical and in which I concur to and is able to accept.
Yes, in certain ways I did what I should have done but sadly, I "broke" some of the commandments which really set me thinking whether my way to love is the best?
I am only like 40% (4th commandment) through the book but am slowly taking my time to absorb and understand what the authors are trying to say. And yes, taking down notes and pondering over them just before I sleep. (i do think alot b4 i sleep for those who knows me)
I recommend this book for ALL to read, for those who are dating or will eventually date somebody. Even though you might not be able to accept some of the things stated in the book but i feel it is a good reference or starting point to shape your own loving ways.
Will share some of the things that really struck me when I am a bit more free. Things that are more relevant to me perhaps. For the full works, read the book! :)
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