Sunday, February 04, 2007

What shoes am I wearing?

Currently reading a book sg lent to me. Couple of soul searching questions that really got me thinking deeply. About myself and my life. And this is one of them.

"You fill many roles in your circle of intimacy and sphere of influence. Write a brief, creative description of who you are in some of those roles. In what ways are you surprised or impressed at how many roles you're trying to fill?"

I thought about it. I think my perspective of myself would be different from what others think of me. So dear friends, I need your help in finding out about myself. "有你就有他" hurhur. Let's see how different my version is different from your version. :)

I am a simple man who has good days and bad days. A son who is learning to bond with my parents. A brother who is learning how to care and show love to my siblings, but not quite successful yet. A cousin who takes my 33 cousins for granted, as if we'll always be close. A friend to some, a good friend to a handful and a best friend to a few. An introvert with seemingly new friends but a livewire with close friends. A shy and private person to most but a trusting confidant to enough. A maturing player and a learning coach. A swimmer and a personal mental coach. A nervous dancer learner to be. More of a colleague, less of a boss. A sentimental creature, tough on the lips, soft in the heart. A big brother to some, a chee hong to a few. A lover who loves, sometimes too much. A religious person with no clear religion. A spirtiual hitch-hiker who's trying to embrace all faiths. Not the social animal and will show my dislike to people I don't like. Not so much an entrepreneur/investor who is afraid of too-big a risk. An aspiring cook who uses my (un)willing friends as guinea pigs! A party-thrower who likes to be in the company of my friends. An insensitive brat at times.

wah damn hard to write la. and got a few bits i dunno how to write. ROLES IN YOUR LIFE, and not what kind of person you are. A bit different.

Looking forward to your inputs my friends!

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